It's been a long time since I've joined GT Topics. I'm not making excuses its just that I haven't been blogging regularly as much as I want to, er used to.
I am a firm believer that there is no such man who can be perfect since we have different taste, criteria and image of THE guy we would want to end up with. Before, I used to be so ideal - he shouldn't smoke, gets along with my friends, should give me a blue rose or a dog during courtship, stuff like that but as I grew older or should I say mature. Few points changed.
Having been exposed to a man's world in terms of their way of thinking or lifestyle, I've come to accept a few guy features that I can tolerate, in all moderation. Its ok for "my" guy to smoke but should be sensitive about when and where he is going to do it. I don't like a chain smoker though. It's ok for him to drink as long as he disciplines himself and does not look for a fight when alcohol takes an effect on him. I would want him to be able to carry himself well in public and can converse with people he just met.
It's still important for my guy to get along with my friends. They don't have to love him completely but at least they can be civil with each other. But IT is most important that Papang approves of him. He should be up to some scrutiny. haha.
I don't believe in courtship so the blue rose and the dog was taken out of the list, but when we are in a relationship it would really really melt my heart if he takes notes of the things that I love and, from out of the blue, gives it to me :)
Physically, I want my guy to carry himself well in terms of hygiene and clothing. What a turn off if he couldn't take care of himself. As much as I admire hunks, I wouldn't want him to look like one. As long as I can take him to the mall then ok na. Baka mamaya sa sobrang gwapo, di man nya ako ipagpalit sa ibang babae, eh sa lalaki naman! This is how realistic I've become.
Ideally? He must have the brains of Atom Araullo and Chris Tiu, the looks of Paolo Avelino and Justin Hartley, the personality of "Papa Chen" and the charisma and sex appeal of Lee Min Ho :))
the quote made me sad.
ReplyDeletei agree on dating a guy with too good looks. they're too scary.
there's no reason for your to be sad with the quote... her could mean You, or in this case, Me... :)
Deletecute quote. sadly, the perfect man does not exist. LOL on "Baka mamaya sa sobrang gwapo, di man nya ako ipagpalit sa ibang babae, eh sa lalaki naman!" becoming more real these days, eh? Kalerky.
ReplyDelete(LOL) maybe he has more beauty rituals than you.
Deletehi!dropping by from GT!it's not bad to keep our own ideals of the perfect guy at all, I've had countless lists when i was a teener,but sometimes when love hits us there seems to have no more time to go over one's mental checklist.this is of course based on my experience. been through a few relationships where,when it ended, i can't help but ask, "bakit ko naging bf yun when he's not the ideal guy at all?",tsk,tsk,weird me!:)) happy gt!!
ReplyDeletea sad truth. i had my share of those. actually those that i have been in a relationship came as a surprise. They are the opposites of how I'd picture my guy. But they also have qualities I admire so its not entirely bad.
DeleteThanks for the visit :)
Hehehe so cute, You are a lucky wife indeed. LOL Mine is up too I hope you can come to visit. Anne’s Sweet Life
ReplyDeletehi anne, thanks for dropping by! I'm not a wife yet -- single and currently not in a relationship. you made me laugh! hahaha!
Deletesounds like my version of the perfect guy too! you know, when you're young and idealistic, you tend to have that, those standards that you think a guy should meet before you fall in love with him. but, the heart does crazy things to us girls. you will realize one day, after many days of truly loving someone, that he is the opposite of everything you ever wanted, but he is all that you want just the same. <3
ReplyDeletevery well said. :) thanks for dropping by :) I'm liking the Girl Talk topics for this month. I hope I can keep up on it ;)
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